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Having lived, loved, and lost in New York City for more than 30 years, and having successfully coached hundreds of others all over the world since 2007, Breakup Coach Donna Barnes gives clients a combination of practical hindsight, intelligence, and academic knowledge.


Having lived, loved, and lost in New York City for more than 30 years, and having successfully coached hundreds of others all over the world since 2007,
Breakup Coach Donna Barnes gives clients a combination of practical hindsight, intelligence, and academic knowledge.

Be happy with or without your ex

I've been there so I truly understand how abandoned you feel; how devastating the future now seems, and how hard it is to get through each day, to eat or sleep. You have to stop allowing your thoughts to be your own worst enemy and use them productively. Stop trolling the internet for answers, and stop driving your friends and family crazy talking about your breakup. Start talking to me! 

I will give you the strength you need, even offer on-call support, to help you cope, heal, and move forward as the best version of yourself — with or without your ex.

I've been there so I truly understand how abandoned you feel; how devastating the future now seems, and how hard it is to get through each day, to eat or sleep. You have to stop allowing your thoughts to be your own worst enemy and use them productively. Stop trolling the internet for answers, and stop driving your friends and family crazy talking about your breakup. 

Start talking to me! I will give you the strength you need, even offer on-call support, to help you cope, heal, and move forward as the best version of yourself — with or without your ex.

emergency phone session

emergency phone session

Need to talk? Having a panic attack and need answers now?

Need To Talk?
Having a Panic Attack &
Need Answers Now?

Sign up for my Emergency Session.
I may be available right now, even at night and on weekends.
If not now, it will be within 24 hours.

Sign up for my Emergency Session.
I may be available right now, even at night and on weekends. If not now, it will be within 24 hours.

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"The only time I feel better is when I'm talking to you."

Tim, 49

I CAN HELP YOU...

STOP SABOTAGING YOUR CHANCES TO REUNITE

STOP THINKING/OBSESSING ABOUT YOUR EX 

STOP NEGATIVE THINKING AND ACTIONS

UNDERSTAND WHY IT ENDED

COPE WITH THE PAIN

TRANSITION TO LIVING ALONE

RAISE YOUR SELF-ESTEEM

DECIDE WHAT YOU TRULY WANT & NEED

LET GO AND HEAL

MOVE ON AND FIND SOMEONE BETTER

POSSIBLY MAKE AMENDS TO GET YOUR EX BACK

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What went wrong? Why wasn't I enough?
Will my ex ever come back???
Stop your thoughts from keeping you awake with my "best of" Videos On Demand and PDF Coaching

If you love something set it free, if it comes back to you it's yours, if not it never was.


ANONYMOUS

Grieving Your Broken Relationship

Change is a process. Everyone handles grief at their own pace. But you cannot heal until you accept that it is over, at least for now. Your relationship as you knew it has died. For many people the feeling of rejection, knowing their ex could be with them but just doesn't want to be, is actually harder than if they had died, especially if they're choosing to be with someone else. That's exactly why you need to decide you do not want your ex back. If you don't want someone, you can't feel rejected.

Stop wasting loving energy on your ex and focus your attention on taking great care of you. Nothing changes if nothing changes. Use this painful time to self-evaluate and decide you want better for yourself. I will help you recognize exactly what you need to change and what would be best for you now. If that does turn out to be your ex we'll make sure you fix what had broken.

Change is a process. Everyone handles grief at their own pace. But you cannot heal until you accept that it is over, at least for now. Your relationship as you knew it has died. For many people the feeling of rejection, knowing their ex could be with them but just doesn't want to be, is actually harder than if they had died, especially if they're choosing to be with someone else. That's exactly why you need to decide you do not want your ex back. If you don't want someone, you can't feel rejected.

Stop wasting loving energy on your ex and focus your attention on taking great care of you. Nothing changes if nothing changes. Use this painful time to self-evaluate and decide you want better for yourself. I will help you recognize exactly what you need to change and what would be best for you now. If that does turn out to be your ex we'll make sure you fix what had broken.

Coaching Services


"My appointment with you was beyond expectations.
Your insight, knowledge and personal experiences combine to offer much more than anyone I've previously met with."

Tony, 53
Emergency Coaching Session

Emergency Phone Session

Emergency Phone Session

ASAP within 24 hours,
including nights and weekends.

ASAP within 24 hours,
including nights and weekends.


Phone and Skype Coaching

Phone or Skype Coaching

Phone or Skype Coaching

From the comfort of anywhere you prefer
— anywhere in the world.

From the comfort of anywhere you prefer — anywhere in the world.


In Person Coaching

In Person Consultation

In Person Consultation

Over a meal or coffee in the New York City or Philadelphia area.

Over a meal or coffee in the New York City or Philadelphia area.


Save Money With Coaching Packages

Coaching Packages

Coaching Packages

Save money with a multiple session package.
Sessions never expire, use at your own pace.

Save money with a multiple session package. Sessions never expire, use at your own pace.

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Giving Up Junk-Food Relationships: Recipes for Healthy Choices


Are you waiting for someone to change back into the person you fell in love with? Do you fear you won't find anyone better for you if you leave or let go? Are you confused about what went wrong? Donna's book bottom lines how to make your relationships healthy, and more importantly how to tell when things have gone bad.

Bad relationships are pretty much the same as junk food.

 "A welcome addition to the self-help genre that aims to heal body and mind." Kirkus Reviews

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Giving Up Junk-Food Relationships: Recipes for Healthy Choices


Are you waiting for someone to change back into the person you fell in love with? Do you fear you won't find anyone better for you if you leave or let go? Are you confused about what went wrong? Donna's book bottom lines how to make your relationships healthy, and more importantly how to tell when things have gone bad.

Bad relationships are pretty much the same as junk food.

 "A welcome addition to the self-help genre that aims to heal body and mind." Kirkus Reviews

BUY NOW