Breakup Coach

I'll help you Feel Better


Breakup Coach

I'll help you feel better

A UNIQUE PERSPECTIVE

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Having lived, loved, and lost in New York City for more than 30 years, and having successfully coached hundreds of others all over the world since 2007, Breakup Coach Donna Barnes gives clients a combination of practical hindsight, intelligence, and academic knowledge.


Having lived, loved, and lost in New York City for more than 30 years, and having successfully coached hundreds of others all over the world since 2007,
Breakup Coach Donna Barnes gives clients a combination of practical hindsight, intelligence, and academic knowledge.

Zoom or Phone Call with me ASAP
Zoom or Phone Call with me ASAP

Services Comments "Donna made sure I didn't fall apart, she was available

when I needed her which is priceless during a breakup

(unlike the other counselors)... "

— Lisa, 34
Slide "No one should feel alone or lost as I initially did during my breakup. Donna was the one who enabled me to feel that I could make it through, and I did, with all of her spot on insight and advice."

— Karen, 36
Slide "I reached out to Donna and after just a first phone call felt deeply understood, which meant everything at that moment."

— Laura, 47
Services Comments "Going through a breakup is not just about getting past losing someone, it's about finding yourself again, and Donna seamlessly glided me through this."

— Karen, 36
Services Comments "Donna continues to prove she is always right, no matter how difficult the choice may be."

— Joyce, 32
Services Comments "You're very easy to talk to and enthusiastic about what you teach."

— Gabby, 25
Transparent Comments "Donna clearly possesses both experience, and the gift of insight."

— Laura, 47
Services Comments "I wish I would have come across your advice earlier. I bet half the population are making these mistakes and don't know it."

— Tina, 25
Services Comments "Although my experience with a psychiatrist and other counselor were helpful, neither of them were able to show me which options truly existed, and how to make the right decisions. Donna always had the right advice."

— Lisa, 34
Services Comments "I found Donna's insight, feedback, and advice to be spot-on. I have since healed and I am now ready to date again, something I never thought possible several months earlier."

— Chicago, 39
Donna Barnes #1 Breakup Coach New York

Get 24/7 Breakup Help Right Now

Watch My 6-Part Video Series to Learn How

Introducing The Painful Truth About Your Breakup And Why It's Better Than A False Guarantee

The First Simple Step To Start Feeling Better About Your Breakup

A Quick Tip To Stop Missing Your Ex and Start Healing

Learn how this breakup is good for you and how you can use it to your advantage.

A Detailed Breakdown Of The Action Plan And How It Will Help You

How The Painful Truth Helped Me Become The Best Version Of Myself

Your Questions Answered - The Painful Truth & The Best Version of Yourself

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ABOUT THE ACTION PLAN

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I call my coaching method The Painful Truth, because there is no quick fix to stop hurting from your breakup. No one can guarantee to get your ex back, because people have free will. You can’t control what your ex does; and if you try it makes you feel helpless, but shifting your focus to taking care of you makes you feel empowered. The Painful Truth is this breakup is the best thing to happen to you. Because your pain can help you grow. Now is your chance to look at your own issues and raise your self-esteem, so you can become the best version of yourself. Nothing changes if nothing changes, if you do get a second chance with your ex things need to change, so you can make it last this time. But first this action plan will help you recognize if your ex is even good for you, and if not, how you can find someone better.

MORE THAN 10 HOURS OF COACHING VIDEOS

I talk to you just as I talk to my personal clients. I share case examples and personal stories to give you experiential insight. I am always compassionate but there is some tough love to help you recognize the truth about your ex, your breakup, and yourself.

5-Step Action Plan to Move Forward

Step-By-Step Actions to take to get you through your breakup, feeling empowered, and becoming the best version of yourself. Includes interacting with your ex, scrutinizing the relationship, healthy boundaries, looking at your baggage, closure, moving on, and a lot more.

Weekly Q & A Zoom Call with Donna

I'll hold a 30-minute Zoom call once a week for the first 4 weeks to answer your questions. You'll get to meet the other like-minded members who truly identify with what you're going through too.

Join My Breakup Recovery Action Plan and get $7000 worth of FREE Bonuses

PRIVATE TELEGRAM MESSAGE GROUP 24/7

Get personal support from Donna, and commiserate with other members who are likewise struggling through a devastating breakup and missing their ex. Having a panic attack? Need a pick-me-up, or intervention? You will never feel alone.

QUIZZES & CHECKLISTS TO GAIN INSIGHT

There are fun quizzes about communication, emotional intimacy, and if you should want your ex back; checklists to identify missing boundaries and abandonment issues, and toxic behavior in your ex such as narcissistic or an addict.

COACHING WORKSHEETS AND GOAL PLANNING

Action worksheets to identify your true self, to raise your self-esteem, to take responsibility for what you do right and wrong in your relationships, to change your patterns, to set ACTION Goals, and lots more.

MORE THAN 10 HOURS OF COACHING VIDEOS

I talk to you just as I talk to my personal clients. I share case examples and personal stories to give you experiential insight. I am always compassionate but there is some tough love to help you recognize the truth about your ex, your breakup, and yourself.

5-Step Action Plan to Move Forward

Step-By-Step Actions to take to get you through your breakup, feeling empowered, and becoming the best version of yourself. Includes interacting with your ex, scrutinizing the relationship, healthy boundaries, looking at your baggage, closure, moving on, and a lot more.

Weekly Q & A Zoom Call with Donna

I'll hold a 30-minute Zoom call once a week for the first 4 weeks to answer your questions. You'll get to meet the other like-minded members who truly identify with what you're going through too.

MORE THAN 10 HOURS OF COACHING VIDEOS

I talk to you just as I talk to my personal clients. I share case examples and personal stories to give you experiential insight. I am always compassionate but there is some tough love to help you recognize the truth about your ex, your breakup, and yourself.

5-Step Action Plan to Move Forward

Step-By-Step Actions to take to get you through your breakup, feeling empowered, and becoming the best version of yourself. Includes interacting with your ex, scrutinizing the relationship, healthy boundaries, looking at your baggage, closure, moving on, and a lot more.

Weekly Q & A Zoom Call with Donna

I'll hold a 30-minute Zoom call once a week for the first 4 weeks to answer your questions. You'll get to meet the other like-minded members who truly identify with what you're going through too.

Join My Breakup Recovery Action Plan and get $7000 worth of FREE Bonuses

PRIVATE TELEGRAM MESSAGE GROUP 24/7

Get personal support from Donna, and commiserate with other members who are likewise struggling through a devastating breakup and missing their ex. Having a panic attack? Need a pick-me-up, or intervention? You will never feel alone.

QUIZZES & CHECKLISTS TO GAIN INSIGHT

There are fun quizzes about communication, emotional intimacy, and if you should want your ex back; checklists to identify missing boundaries and abandonment issues, and toxic behavior in your ex such as narcissistic or an addict.

COACHING WORKSHEETS AND GOAL PLANNING

Action worksheets to identify your true self, to raise your self-esteem, to take responsibility for what you do right and wrong in your relationships, to change your patterns, to set ACTION Goals, and lots more.

PRIVATE TELEGRAM MESSAGE GROUP 24/7

Get personal support from Donna, and commiserate with other members who are likewise struggling through a devastating breakup and missing their ex. Having a panic attack? Need a pick-me-up, or intervention? You will never feel alone.

QUIZZES & CHECKLISTS TO GAIN INSIGHT

There are fun quizzes about communication, emotional intimacy, and if you should want your ex back; checklists to identify missing boundaries and abandonment issues, and toxic behavior in your ex such as narcissistic or an addict.

COACHING WORKSHEETS AND GOAL PLANNING

Action worksheets to identify your true self, to raise your self-esteem, to take responsibility for what you do right and wrong in your relationships, to change your patterns, to set ACTION Goals, and lots more.
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This online Action Plan is absolutely the best coaching program I have ever created, and it allows me to be there for you 24/7. I’m sharing with you every single secret I’ve acquired in my 50+ years. And giving you step-by-step encouragement to feel better about your breakup without holding anything back.

Yes, I want 24/7 BREAKUP Support
Yes, I want 24/7 BREAKUP Support

Be happy with or without your ex

I've been there so I truly understand how abandoned you feel; how devastating the future now seems, and how hard it is to get through each day, to eat or sleep. You have to stop allowing your thoughts to be your own worst enemy and use them productively. Stop trolling the internet for answers, and stop driving your friends and family crazy talking about your breakup. Start talking to me! 

I will give you the strength you need, even offer on-call support, to help you cope, heal, and move forward as the best version of yourself — with or without your ex.

I've been there so I truly understand how abandoned you feel; how devastating the future now seems, and how hard it is to get through each day, to eat or sleep. You have to stop allowing your thoughts to be your own worst enemy and use them productively. Stop trolling the internet for answers, and stop driving your friends and family crazy talking about your breakup. 

Start talking to me! I will give you the strength you need, even offer on-call support, to help you cope, heal, and move forward as the best version of yourself — with or without your ex.

Zoom or phone call asap

ZOOM or phone CALL ASAP

Need to Talk to Someone Who Will Truly Understand?
Having a Panic Attack? Need Comfort Now?

I may be available right now, even at night and on weekends.
If not now, it will be within 24 hours. Fill out the form below.
I'll be notified right away and will email you to set up our call ASAP.

Select 4 Hours to get a discount for additional support. Use however you want.
2 hours now, 30 minutes next time, etc. Use at your own pace. Hours never expire.

I may be available right now, even at night and on weekends. If not now, it will be within 24 hours. Fill out the form below. I'll be notified right away and will email you to set up our call ASAP.

Select 4 Hours to get a discount for additional support. Use however you want. 2 hours now, 30 minutes next time, etc. Use at your own pace. Hours never expire.

I may be available right now, even at night and on weekends.
If not now, it will be within 24 hours. Fill out the form below.
I'll be notified right away and will email you to set up our call ASAP.

Select 4 Hours to get a discount for additional support. Use however you want.
2 hours now, 30 minutes next time, etc. Use at your own pace. Hours never expire.

Need To Talk to Someone Who Truly Understands?
Having a Panic Attack?
Need Comfort Now?

"The only time I feel better is when I'm talking to you."

Tim, 49

I may be available right now, even at night and on weekends.
If not now, it will be within 24 hours. Fill out the form below. I'll be notified right away and will email you to set up our call ASAP.

Select 4 Hours to get a discount for additional support. Use however you want. 2 hours now, 30 minutes next time, an hour and a half the next, etc. Use at your own pace. Hours never expire.

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I WILL HELP YOU...

STOP SABOTAGING YOUR CHANCES TO REUNITE

STOP THINKING/OBSESSING ABOUT YOUR EX 

STOP NEGATIVE THINKING AND ACTIONS

UNDERSTAND WHY IT ENDED

COPE WITH THE PAIN

TRANSITION TO LIVING ALONE

RAISE YOUR SELF-ESTEEM

DECIDE WHAT YOU TRULY WANT & NEED

LET GO AND HEAL

MOVE ON AND FIND SOMEONE BETTER

POSSIBLY MAKE AMENDS TO GET YOUR EX BACK

If you love something set it free, if it comes back to you it's yours, if not it never was.


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Grieving Your Broken Relationship

Change is a process. Everyone handles grief at their own pace. But you cannot heal until you accept that it is over, at least for now. Your relationship as you knew it has died. For many people the feeling of rejection, knowing their ex could be with them but just doesn't want to be, is actually harder than if they had died, especially if they're choosing to be with someone else. That's exactly why you need to decide you do not want your ex back. If you don't want someone, you can't feel rejected.

Stop wasting loving energy on your ex and focus your attention on taking great care of you. Nothing changes if nothing changes. Use this painful time to self-evaluate and decide you want better for yourself. I will help you recognize exactly what you need to change and what would be best for you now. If that does turn out to be your ex we'll make sure you fix what had broken.

Change is a process. Everyone handles grief at their own pace. But you cannot heal until you accept that it is over, at least for now. Your relationship as you knew it has died. For many people the feeling of rejection, knowing their ex could be with them but just doesn't want to be, is actually harder than if they had died, especially if they're choosing to be with someone else. That's exactly why you need to decide you do not want your ex back. If you don't want someone, you can't feel rejected.

Stop wasting loving energy on your ex and focus your attention on taking great care of you. Nothing changes if nothing changes. Use this painful time to self-evaluate and decide you want better for yourself. I will help you recognize exactly what you need to change and what would be best for you now. If that does turn out to be your ex we'll make sure you fix what had broken.

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"My appointment with you was beyond expectations.
Your insight, knowledge and personal experiences combine to offer much more than anyone I've previously met with."

Tony, 53
Emergency Coaching Session

Emergency Phone Session

Emergency Phone Session

Within 24 hours, possibly now,
including nights and weekends.

ASAP within 24 hours,
including nights and weekends.


Phone and Skype Coaching

Phone or Skype Coaching

Phone or Skype Coaching

From the comfort of anywhere you prefer
— anywhere in the world.

From the comfort of anywhere you prefer — anywhere in the world.


In Person Coaching

In Person Consultation

In Person Consultation

Over a meal or coffee in the New York City or Philadelphia area.

Over a meal or coffee in the New York City or Philadelphia area.


Save Money With Coaching Packages

Coaching Packages

Coaching Packages

Save money with a multiple session package.
Sessions never expire, use at your own pace.

Save money with a multiple session package. Sessions never expire, use at your own pace.

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Giving Up Junk-Food Relationships: Recipes for Healthy Choices


Are you waiting for someone to change back into the person you fell in love with? Do you fear you won't find anyone better for you if you leave or let go? Are you confused about what went wrong? Donna's book bottom lines how to make your relationships healthy, and more importantly how to tell when things have gone bad.

Bad relationships are pretty much the same as junk food.

 "A welcome addition to the self-help genre that aims to heal body and mind." Kirkus Reviews

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Giving Up Junk-Food Relationships: Recipes for Healthy Choices


Are you waiting for someone to change back into the person you fell in love with? Do you fear you won't find anyone better for you if you leave or let go? Are you confused about what went wrong? Donna's book bottom lines how to make your relationships healthy, and more importantly how to tell when things have gone bad.

Bad relationships are pretty much the same as junk food.

 "A welcome addition to the self-help genre that aims to heal body and mind." Kirkus Reviews

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